Monday, May 13, 2019

I get results.

So CBSE 12th standard results were out last week and it was the usual:
1. Girls outshine boys
2. Students gets 499/500 (how?!)

Reminded me of this incident:
In what now seems like a different life altogether, I was a part time swimming instructor. I did a life saving and swimming instructor’s course in the long-ish break after school ends and before college life begins. I taught swimming to many children and women of all ages between 2002 till 2009. Many of those who came to me had developed a deep phobia of water after trying to learn swimming earlier. One such case was an 8 year old girl who’s mother wanted her to learn swimming but her previous experiences in the pool were, to put it mildly- terrifying. One of these days, she came in to swim and she wasn’t her usual chirpy eight year old self so I asked her if she was ok. As it turned out, she got 80% marks in her exams. Now I am an eternal ‘can do better’ student who was happy to put in the bare minimum effort and be happy with 70% marks. So my first instinct was to congratulate her! She gave me a weak and maybe condescending smile, I’m not sure which one it was. Then her mother who usually accompanied her to the pool explained why she wasn’t too pleased about it. She always got the highest marks in her class, but because her mother needed to focus oh her sibling who was born that year, she couldn’t spend so much time with this girl that year and this affected her results. I felt so bad for the disappointment this sweet eight year old girl felt and told her about how I never got great marks in school but I still became an architect and a swimming instructor (which in my book is a very cool thing to become) and I'm not doing too bad, as she could see clearly. I don't think she was too convinced but maybe she felt bad for me and made a show of feeling better. She stayed back an extra few minutes to take a few more adventurous (and completely voluntary) jumps into the deep end that day.

Hell yea I get results with my students!

2 comments:

AB said...

Sigh. Boards and results!

I was told recently by someone that 80% marks were 'horrible'.

Meghana said...

I would like to say that I would have killed to get 80% marks in my board exams but even that would be far too much effort than what I would have wanted to put in.